Friday, May 30, 2014

PT

No, no...not physical therapy, the real PT:  potty training.  It's serious stuff, guys.  And hard.

All along I figured at some point during the summer, I would venture down this road.  We've been reading potty books with Frankie and I've been talking to him a lot about using the potty and big boy undies.  And then last week I asked Frankie when he thought he would be ready to start using the potty, thinking he would respond with something along the lines of "when we move into our house" or "when I get my big boy bed".  But, no.  Instead I heard, "Hmmm...I think Wednesday."  Well, push me over with a feather.  So, I went with it.  Except we started on "pretend Wednesday", which was really Thursday since on Wednesday we drove to Arlington for our weekly house status meeting.  

On Tuesday, we went to Target and Frankie picked out his big boy undies:  Thomas the Train and Cars.  (What else, right?)  

On Wednesday, I enjoyed my last trip worry-free of potty accidents.

Thursday was go-time.  

I read and heard a lot about naked time, which honestly scared me.  I mean, with a boy, that stuff could spray anywhere!  Opting for the next best thing, Frankie hung out in his undies for three straight days.  The first day I questioned if he was really ready.  The boy peed every 15 minutes.  Seriously.  Little drops here and there.  Every 15 minutes.  We went through about 15 zillion pairs of underwear.  Ok, more like 12, but still.  I would sit him on the potty every 15 minutes and he would get M&M's and stickers for trying and for successes.  On day 2, I felt like he was getting the hang of it a bit - at least he was able to hold it so it wasn't spurting out every 15 minutes.  We spread the potty increments to every 30 minutes with still pretty good success.  Day 3 we only had a few accidents.  And then on Day 4, we decided to travel 3 hours to visit family.  Good idea, right?  It was a total last minute trip so I didn't have time to order a travel potty so we were winging it.  No drinks in the car and pull-ups.  Oh - and cross our fingers that he didn't pee too much all over our family's house.  Well, we only had 2 accidents and on the way home, Frankie even peed and pooped in a McDonald's bathroom!  I cried victory.  

Since then, we've changed to pull-ups at nap time.  Frankie decided that he liked his undies so much that he didn't want a diaper at nap time.  (Which I learned by finding him naked...laying in sheets wet with pee after two naps.)  He even pulled his "special nap time undies (pull-ups) off once.  I heard him calling me after being in his crib for about 30 minutes and when I went in he told me "my sheets are vet".  Well, yes; yes they are, Mr. Naked.  He had peed while standing up so it was dripping off his crib slats.  Honestly, I was thankful for a #1 accident and not a #2 disaster!  (We have had one minor poop accident where he just forgot to tell that he had to go, but at least that was contained!)

Yesterday we ventured to the Shenandoah Discovery Museum and I just nagged him the whole time.  "Frankie, do you have to go potty?"  "How about now?"  After trying twice, he went the third time right before we left to come home.  No accidents!  And with a little bribery (hello Oreos and M&Ms), he is getting better about telling me that he has to go.  He's still in night time diapers and I imagine he will be for quite a while - but for now I think I can say Frankie is almost potty trained!  Nice work, buddy - Mommy and Daddy are SO proud of you!

showing off those big boy undies

cheesing on the potty

nothing like a little iPad bribery to get him to try every 15-30 minutes!


Tuesday, May 27, 2014

Sweet Sounds of Laughter

We've finally gotten legit laughter out of Julia - and it sounds just as sweet as she is...


Saturday, May 17, 2014

Julia is 4 Months!

Babies are pretty amazing creations.  It's incredible to think that in a mere 4 months, Julia has gone from only sleeping, eating and pooping to actually learning basic developmental functions.  Her teeny tiny little hands now open and shut and sometimes she will stare at them in amazement as she practices this skill.  They've gone from staying closed-fisted to constantly grabbing and playing with toys - Or in her mouth!  When she sits on my lap at dinner, I have to really watch her to keep her from pulling my plate into both of our laps.  She's discovered her toes and loves grabbing for them and is so proud that she can get them into her mouth.  Just recently she's started doing "crunches", where she tries oh-so hard to pull herself up.  She loves sitting up and taking in the views but is also still fond of laying on her back and playing on her playmat.  Her big smile lights up the room, but I haven't quite gotten a laugh out of her yet.  I can tell it's right there on the tip of her tongue, but no laughter yet.  She does have quite a voice, though, still squealing with joy in the mornings when she wakes up - or screeching for attention when I'm in another room or playing with big brother.  Speaking of big brother, Julia adores Frankie and I LOVE watching her watch him.  She gives him great, big smiles and eats up his attention.  She's already vying for his toys, too.  She reaches for his legos and Matchbox cars and usually he's a good sport about sharing.  In only 4 months, she's learned just so much.  Incredible.

Julia's schedule at this point is, at least, partially predictable, eating about every three hours during the day and squeezing in about three naps - usually in her co-sleeper unless we're out and about.  On Mother's Day, she surprised me with a 3.5 hour nap!  Her night sleeping is great, too - waking up 1-2 times.  Totally manageable, but I'm a much bigger fan of the one-time-wake-up nights!  She's able to put herself to sleep which is a HUGE difference between her and Frankie.  It really makes life so much easier.  I'm not sure if that's because she's a relatively easier baby or because I have more of a clue this time around!

Julia's 4 month stats:

Height: 24.5" (62%)
Weight:  12 lbs 12 oz (32%)
Head:  16" (42%)

I was a little worried when I saw she was only in the 32nd percentile for weight but her doctor was happy with her weight gain and predicts her to be more petite.  She assured me that I have nothing to worry about.  I'm just comparing her to Frankie, who was over 16 pounds at his 4 month doctor visit!  Julia is still getting the adorable chubby legs and is nutritionally healthy!  We're waiting until 6 months to start solids, which is hard to believe is right around the corner.



 
I love how she sleeps with her hands clasped over her eyes.

Saturday, May 3, 2014

Touch a Truck Day

Last year when we went to Touch a Truck Day, Frankie was extremely reserved and pretty scared of the large trucks.  This year, he went sprinting right for them...


We attended the event in Sterling this year which was much less crowded than the Arlington event last year.  No lines meant Frankie could easily hit up the trucks multiple times.  

He got to climb on top of the fire truck...


And sit inside the truck with a fireman!
In awe, staring the fireman
Sit in the back of a police car...

Honk the big horn in the cement mixer...


Hang out in the back of a limo...


There was also an ambulance, army truck, animal control truck and a few others there.  It was a nice, low key, fun Saturday morning.